What a Relief!

Last week we made a huge decision.  We decided to change Doctors.  We had been experiencing some reservations all along about the OB we chose, but felt as if it would be too late to change in the middle of the pregnancy.  After a little research we realized that changing Doctors in the middle of the pregnancy isn't actually uncommon.

It is extremely important to make sure that this birth experience is everything that I've always envisioned. I realize that we can't control everything throughout this experience, but I want to feel good about all of the decisions I do have control over.  

Before we became pregnant, we watched a very interesting movie called "The Business of Being Born" which had a huge impact on how we felt our birth experience should go.  The reservations I was feeling toward our current OB prompted Mike and I to rewatch this movie.  After seeing this movie for the second time, our feelings were solidified in knowing that staying with our current OB was not what we wanted.  I definitely knew at this point that I wanted us to go through this experience with a midwife and not an OB. 

Last Wednesday we had our first appointment with the Vanderbilt Midwives.  It was everything I had expected and they are totally in tune with the experience we want to have.  The comforting thing is that I will still have Lil' Shaffa at the Vanderbilt Hospital (and not our home).  I have been hesitant and somewhat scared up until now, but for the first time since the beginning of the pregnancy I am actually excited to give birth.   

We are now at nineteen weeks and our big ultrasound is Friday September 24, 2010.  We will find out that afternoon whether we are having a boy or a girl.

Very much looking forward to the next 21 weeks!

Just as a woman's heart knows how and when to pump, her lungs to inhale, and her hand to pull back from fire, so she knows when and how to give birth. - Virginia Di Orio

Week 16

We are officially into week sixteen of our pregnancy and well into the second trimester.  I think it's important to document the "not so good" along with the "great" through this journey, so here goes.

Many people have told me that once I entered into the second trimester that I would feel so much better.  Well, I'm still waiting.  Maybe since I had a relatively easy first trimester I'm not quite feeling the reprieve that I expected.  I do have a little energy back, but now that I can't lye on my back to sleep I'm having difficulty getting comfortable throughout the night.  Poor Mike who has to deal with my pregnancy pillow on one side, a pillow for my head, and another pillow for the other side of me.  We only have a full size bed and he's beginning to make comments about being squished out of bed at night.  I'm so sorry Mike.  Maybe one day we will have that king size Tempurpedic that we dream about. 

On a good note, our Doctor called today with the results of our prenatal testing and everything has come back within normal range.  So, Lil' Shaffa seems to be perfectly healthy which makes us perfectly happy. We are looking forward to the long weekend and hope to finally take our first "belly shots".